Meaningful change happens in
RELATIONSHIPS
Therapy for Couples and Individuals Ready for Change
In-Person in Calabasas and Online Throughout California
Because you love your partner, but feel disconnected
So much of your time and energy is spent trying to convince each other you’re right.
You both feel so misunderstood, and everything you say to one another seems like an accusation.
Neither of you is ready to give up on what you’ve built, but you don’t know how to move forward.
Because being in relationships feels like losing yourself
There must be some way that you can grow as a couple, without neglecting yourself as an individual.
But you’ve never been able to make it work before and don’t know if you can this time, either.
And you never want to hear the word “codependent” again.
Because you second-guess every decision.
You just broke up and your inner monologue is a relentless stream of doubt and regret.
I did the right thing, didn’t I? It was inevitable, wasn’t it?
And if I didn’t make a mistake, why do I feel so sh*!ty?
Because it’s so hard to let your guard down.
At an early age, you learned that trusting people was the first step to getting hurt.
Intimacy feels impossible, and vulnerability is too risky, so you build a wall around yourself.
The closer someone gets to you, the more afraid you become that they’ll see the real you.
Because if you don’t do something different… nothing will change.
Ask yourself how much change you’re ready for. Seriously. Right now. Ask yourself.
You have two options: doing what you’ve always done, which will get you what you’ve always gotten.
Or there’s doing something you haven’t tried yet. That can make all the difference.
Who you’ve been is not who
you ARE.
It’s time to look where you want your boat to go and paddle hard toward what scares you.
Therapy will help you learn that vulnerability is the risk you take to be witnessed, seen, and understood.
Let’s help you bring to life the parts of yourself buried beneath piles of doubt, confusion, and insecurity. No pretense. No judgment. No BS.
Hi, I’m Joshua.
I’m so glad you’re here. Therapy is a relationship. It’s a particular kind of relationship, sure. But it’s absolutely a relationship. I’ve dedicated myself to working with compassion, candor, and warmth. Therapy can be hard, but it can also be a joy – when you work with me, you can expect both.
I’m unwilling to conform to the idea that healing is “supposed” to look like any one thing. We’ll work together to discover what healing or growth looks like for you.
Whether you’re in a complicated relationship, have experienced trauma, or if anxiety has you overpowered more often than you’d like, I’m here to help you move toward a preferred way of being.
Using a combination of talk, EMDR therapy, mindfulness, and maybe even some clay at the potter’s wheel, we’ll build a plan tailored to your unique strengths and needs. Show up as you are. That’s what I’m gonna do. It’s not just therapy – it’s a relationship.
If you’re caught in a place of wishing things were different, it’s time to do something different.
Call me now, and take the next step on your healing journey today!
What I Offer
Let’s untangle things together.
You don’t have to do this alone anymore. I’ll be with you every
step of the way offering guidance.
Reach out today, and start building the life you deserve.